It is amazing how many more open relationship people (ORP) there seems to be in the world since I first started my open relationship journey in 2010. I go on Tinder now and there are so many more options for people who want to have sex for fun and personal growth.
As of this writing, I even have an open relationship mentor and several people I can go to when I need to talk about ORI, or, Open Relationship Issues.
I have also recognized a pattern and a problem that I think I can solve for ORP everywhere. A very common ORI prevalent among hetero open couples is that they all seem to be looking for a woman to share. A safe woman. A woman who will not cause havok in the open relationship in which she enters for fun and pleasure. I personally know several couples who are interested in bringing me in to their relationship because they know that I am safe, and I take this privelege very seriously. It is a great power that comes with great responsibility.
But I want to take this further. I want to help other couples get what they need without the unnecessary hassle of an unstable woman. I suggest a swapping or trading system. This system will provide couples with women who are already in relationships, thereby having the added bonus of providing peace of mind to those couples who want the fun and the pleasure, but none of the drama.
I am just spit balling here, so bare in mind I have not as of yet worked out the intricacies of this system: When a couple meets and has sex with a woman (who is half of another open relationship) they deem acceptable for fun and pleasure, the woman from that couple then goes with that playmate to meet her significant other to see if there can be a connection for fun and pleasure there as well.
I visualize an app, much like Tinder or OKC, where women can find and meet each other, and if they have chemistry and feel they can trust each other, they then go and meet their partners. This can also be a networking opportunity so that if you meet someone who doesn't necessarily float your boat, you can suggest another couple to her with whom you have had pleasant experiences.
In essence, this is a matriarchal system in which the women arrange the playdates and the men reap the benefits, very similar to almost every other social event in life. Think about it as another way for women to bond, talk about relationships, and provide a very special gift for the men in their lives.
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